OurTime is part of the Match Group family — the same people behind Match.com and Tinder — but this one’s built specifically for singles aged 50 and over.
It’s a calm, friendly corner of the internet where you can meet people who actually get where you are in life.
Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or simply ready to date again, it’s designed to feel welcoming, not overwhelming.
First Impressions
I joined because I was curious. I’d seen the adverts and liked the idea of a dating space that didn’t feel rushed or superficial.
Within minutes of signing up, it was clear this site was built with care. The layout is clean, the navigation simple, and the atmosphere friendly.
What stood out straight away was the tone of the messages and profiles — thoughtful, honest, and often funny.
These are people who’ve lived a bit, who know what they’re looking for, and who are open to new company. It feels like walking into a friendly room, not a meat market.
What I Liked
- Everyone’s over 50: No awkward explanations or worrying if you’re “too old” for the app.
- Clean and simple to use: It’s genuinely one of the easiest dating sites I’ve tried. You won’t get lost.
- Offline events: Coffee mornings, walking groups, and relaxed socials make meeting people feel natural.
- Real conversations: Replies come quickly and people actually want to chat — no ghosting, no nonsense.
What Could Be Better
- You’ll need a paid plan to message freely — the free version only lets you dip your toes in.
- It’s quieter in rural areas, though still active around towns and cities.
- Video chat would be a welcome addition for those first “face-to-face” moments online.
Ratings at a Glance
| Category | Rating (Out of 5) | Summary |
|---|---|---|
| Ease of Use | ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ | Effortless to navigate — perfect if you’re not a tech expert. |
| Match Quality | ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆ | Genuine people with well-written profiles and kind messages. |
| Communication Tools | ⭐⭐⭐☆ | Simple and effective, but could use video chat. |
| Mobile App | ⭐⭐⭐☆ | Basic but reliable — it does what it needs to do. |
| Value for Money | ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆ | Priced fairly for what’s clearly a safe and supportive space. |
| Customer Support | ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆ | Fast, friendly, and genuinely helpful when contacted. |
Standout Features
- Smart search filters: Find people nearby who share your interests and values.
- “Carrousel” feature: A quick, swipe-style way to browse — easy and oddly addictive.
- Favourites list: Save the profiles that catch your eye so you can come back to them.
- Curated matches: Daily suggestions based on your preferences — thoughtful and accurate.
- Local events: A lovely touch that makes meeting offline feel natural and safe.
Pricing (UK)
| Plan Length | Price per Month | Total Cost |
|---|---|---|
| 1 Month | £29.99 | £29.99 |
| 3 Months | £19.99/month | £59.97 |
| 6 Months | £14.99/month | £89.94 |
Free Account Includes:
- Profile creation and photo uploads
- Viewing matches and browsing profiles
- Sending likes and limited messages
Premium Adds:
- Unlimited messaging and read receipts
- Full access to detailed profiles
- Invites to member events
- Priority support if you ever need a hand
How It Compares
| Feature | OurTime | eHarmony | Elite Singles | Cupid | Match.com |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Matching System | Interest-based + filters | Compatibility quiz | Personality-based | Basic search | Manual search + filters |
| User Intent | Companionship, dating (50+) | Long-term focused | Serious relationships | Mixed (casual/serious) | Mixed (casual/serious) |
| Free Messaging | ✅ Limited | ❌ No | ❌ No | ✅ Trial only | ✅ Yes |
| Demographics | 50+, mature singles | 25–50, committed | 30+, professionals | 25–45, general | 25–55, general |
| Ease of Use | Very easy | Moderate | Moderate | Easy | Easy |
| Safety | ✅ Friendly moderation | ✅ Pre-vetted profiles | ✅ Strong moderation | ❌ Many fake profiles | ⚠️ Mixed experiences |
Safety & Community
One of the best things about OurTime is how safe it feels. Every new profile and photo is checked before going live,
and if anything looks off, the moderation team deals with it quickly. You can also block or report someone with a single click.
The community guidelines are clear — kindness and respect first — and people genuinely seem to follow them.
During my time on the site, I didn’t run into any spam or fake accounts. Conversations were polite, warm, and often genuinely funny.
Final Thoughts
OurTime.co.uk is a lovely, low-stress way to meet new people once you’re past the chaos of the usual dating scene.
It’s easy to use, feels welcoming, and attracts a community that values proper connection over quick chats.
Sure, it’s quieter outside big cities, and yes, you’ll need a subscription to really get chatting — but it’s worth it.
For anyone over 50 who wants to dip their toes back into dating (or even just expand their circle), OurTime is one of the friendliest, most genuine platforms out there.
